Ramadhan *realistic* goals.

Peace be upon to you.

This post was written with my stream of consciousness, not planned at all and I’m sorry if it’s quite random.

I know Ramadhan is already here and this post might be quite late but I always believe that you are never too late until you already done with it, and our journey is way too long. Make it count.

To some of my readers who don’t know what Ramadhan is, it is a month;  seventh month of Islamic Hijri calendar where all of Muslims fast, restraining our self from food, drinks and stuff that can break the fast, as an act of spiritual cleansing or ibadah (act of pray, I don’t have the perfect words to put here) from dust to dawn.

First. Why do we need goals at the first place? Well… I think it’s nice to have something to achieve to enhance our ability, to make this whole time because Ramadhan is the time where Allah gave a lots of His chance, rewards and based on I know (I’m an Islamic law student, and one of my favorite subject to look  up to is Islamic Jurisprudence) and in it fasting (in Ramadhan) is ‘wajib mudhayya’ the obligations with limitations where you only have one month to fast. That’s all. Why not have a good plan on making this whole time the best of us?

Okay, let’s get to the main point.

I think it would be nice if we have a top 3 goals that we really want to achieve like;

1.       Read the whole Quran in a month.

2.       Stop smoking.

3.       Donate to the people in needs

 and give our full attention and focus to this three, if you have more just put it there but know your limits and start making it work. If you have other things that you want to achieve but not really as important as your top 3, make a general list so you can always review it.

Ramadhan is a perfect time, to change our inner self, from bad habits stuff. I hope everybody is in good shape and time and this little writing helps you, or at least give you an idea on making our best Ramadhan this year.

I guess that’s all.

Bye.

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Another chapters.

hi.

quite a while i'm not writing here, mainly because i'm quite busy with exam and now hey, i'm back!

and now, yeah right now it's a lot to process. What to do, next on and on. Alhamdulillah Ramadhan is here and but let me spare the story in another post later, hahahaha.

second, i'm going back to Malaysia but the thing is i'm not back for raya like most of the people but after raya. Which is a long story to be told and i'm  not in the mood of writing a long sentences. Pardon me.

and i guess this post is just a mere update to this blog, so i won't look like i don't care to update, duhh.

and stay tuned.

bye :)

Rules for being amazing

1.       Risk more than is required.

2.       Learn more than is normal.

3.       Show courage. Be strong. Breathe. Excel. Love.

4.       Lead. Speak the truth. Live your values.

5.       Laugh. Cry. Innovate.  Simplify. Adore mastery.

6.       Release mediocrity. Aim for genius. Stay humble.

7.       Be kinder than expected.

8.       Deliver more than is needed. Exclude passion.

9.       Shatter your limits. Transcend your fears.

10.   Inspire others by your bigness.

11.   Dream big but start small.

12.   Act now. Don’t stop.

13.   Change the world!

Common Courtesy.

I just finished reading Ellen DeGeneres’s book, [Seriously … I’m kidding] just in a day and I would say it’s quite a good book (I was searching for this particular book for a long, long time and then I found it at Virgin Megastores for LE156. Without doubt I just grab it even though it’s quite expensive. Here’s some tips that I learn after a few experiences; if you like something, just get it or you’ll never have it.

I like Ellen. I like her sense of humor, her wits and her trademark that she said at the end of her show “be kind to one another”. I find that she is very inspiring to me.

Well, there is a particular chapter in this book that bring me here, sitting in front of this laptop to write down this, this particular subject  that might sound cliché as it can be but I do think we need to do something about it. We need to change it.

That chapter she wrote about common courtesy on how she likes to be early and hate when people are late. So do me. I hate to be late because I too, have kind a sense of respect go people’s time and secondly because my watch was set to be 10 minutes early on purpose.  It is just annoying when people bring the term “common Malay behavior” when every time on a meeting or date you have to expect people will be late and so on.

Also when we talked about this, it brings us to the level of mentality of our people (Malay, Malaysian?) that maybe I’m stereotyping but it does happened, all the time to me. Maybe when a person is late in about 3-5 minutes that might be acceptable but 1 hour? You got to have good reason on that like your cats got sick or anything, maybe not traffic jam or … I don’t know.

The thing is this. Being early on anything you’re up to is not just about being able to keep on track of your plan and able to work it efficiently but also about respect and common courtesy that I think we need to change the way we look on that, as right now I think it is socially acceptable to be late as it is not a big deal or it’s a small matter. Maybe you think it’s a small stuff and I’ll leave that to you but considering all of the possible consequences that might happen; it is a big deal, to me.

Last but not least, it’s not that hard to just be ready earlier than we should, as it’s also a good habit and maybe it’s more than that like saying ‘thank you’, ‘please’ or just be kind to one another. It’s just a simple manner that was taught when we were kids. Above of all of this writing, my point is it’s nice to be punctual, to be on time.

Please,

Thank you.

Inner peace.

Today I decided to cut my hair short. Number two to be exact. Been a long time actually I didn’t do like that, and it does feels comforting.

When I was a junior in high school, I never had a quite a long hair as my mom never like that. She like us, I mean my siblings to have short hair like my dad  and I always insecure about that because most people like to make fun of that scenario. Yes, having a short hair is not a cool thing in my school.

Time by time I start to rebel and yeah since I’m started to grow old, that is not a thing that my mom can control and so does happened to all my brothers, and I know the feeling very well

The thing is, I like having a quite long hair but also by having that I realize that I need to concern on a few things like dandruff, or basically log hair problems *eventually your hair need an extra care too.

Well, the point is today I kind of have a feeling of free, and loving my choice even though there are a few peoples who quite shock and I expect that, not less some of that making fun of that (well I didn’t understand that either, and having short hair is called bald which is etymologically wrong to say that.) also, bald shaming is real. HAHAHA

Somehow there’s a lot decisions that I didn’t make because of fear, dogma and I’m trying to beat that, one by one.

“The more you love your decisions, the less you need others to love them.” – Kourt K.